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An ethical will which we refer to as a Heart will is a deeply personal way to pass down your values, beliefs, and life lessons to those you love. It’s not about money or possessions, like a traditional will—it’s about sharing what really matters: your heart, your wisdom, and the hopes you have for your children, grandchildren and other beneficiaries. Originally rooted in ancient Jewish tradition, the idea of an Heart will has spread to people of all backgrounds who want to leave a meaningful message behind for their
loved ones.
At its core, a Heart will gives you the chance to share the values that have shaped your life. It’s a way to put into words what you stand for, how you’ve made sense of the world, and what you’ve learned through life’s ups and downs. It’s not just a document—it’s a gift of guidance, love, and understanding for the people who matter most to you.
For many, a Heart will may be a source of comfort and inspiration for their loved ones. It helps bridge generations and provides a sense of connection with you while offering a glimpse into who you are and what you believe. Whether you’re sharing your successes, struggles, or a vision for the future, it’s a way to leave a lasting impact beyond your lifetime.
What Goes Into a Heart Will?
There’s no one right way to write a Heart will—it’s a reflection of your unique life, values, and
experiences. Here are some common themes you might include:
Core Values and Beliefs:
What principles guide you? Whether it’s kindness, hard work, or faith,
this is where you can share what you hope future generations will carry forward.
Life Lessons:
What have you learned from your successes and failures? Share the wisdom you’ve
gained from navigating life’s challenges and how you’ve grown along the way.
Hopes for the Future:
What dreams do you have for your family, your community, or even the world? This is your chance to express your hopes for the happiness and well-being of your loved
ones.
Love and Gratitude:
Say what’s in your heart. Express your love and appreciation for family, friends, or anyone who has made a difference in your life.
Spiritual Reflections:
If faith or spirituality is important to you, you can share your thoughts on life’s purpose, your beliefs about the afterlife, or your personal spiritual journey.
Apologies and Reconciliations:
If there are unresolved issues or conflicts, a Heart will can be a way to apologize, ask for forgiveness, or bring closure.
How to Create a Heart Will
There’s no set format for a Heart will. We at Florida Wills & Trusts Law, can help you create a handwritten letter, a video memorialization, or even an audio message. The most important thing is that
it comes from the heart. Some people choose to write it during major life milestones, while others update it as their values and experiences change over time.
Unlike a legal will, a Heart will is not binding. It’s a personal message that may be shared alongside your estate planning documents. It’s more about leaving behind something meaningful rather than something official. And it’s never too early to start — people of any age can benefit from reflecting on their life and sharing their story with those who matter most to them.
The Role of Heart Wills Today
In a world that often focuses on material wealth, Heart wills are a powerful reminder that the most valuable legacy we leave behind is our values and the lessons we’ve learned. More and more, people are incorporating Heart wills into their estate planning to ensure that their loved ones not only inherit
financial security but also the wisdom and love that shaped their lives.
Heart wills are also finding a place in end-of-life care and therapy, helping individuals reflect on their journey and find peace. For many, they’re a way to make sense of their life and leave something truly lasting for those they love.
A Heart will is a heartfelt way to leave a legacy that goes beyond material possessions. It’s your chance to share what truly matters—your values, life lessons, love, and hopes for the future. By putting your deepest thoughts and reflections into words, you can offer guidance, comfort, and a sense of connection to future generations, ensuring that your moral legacy endures long after you’re gone.